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   “Is Daddy going to come?” I asked as my mother put the finishing touches on my angel costume.

   “You know he never goes to church,” she replied.

   “But can’t he come just this once to see me in the pageant?” I pleaded. 

   She sighed. “I doubt it. Try not to get your hopes up. I’m afraid you’ll only be disappointed.”

   Despite her warning, I did begin to hope—and pray. But I was terribly disap­pointed the night of the pageant. Daddy didn’t come. I was silent the whole way home. 

   “Would you like to put up the Christmas tree tonight?” Mother asked, trying to cheer me up.

   “I guess,” I said without much enthusiasm.

   Carefully Mother unpacked our little artificial tree and placed it on the buffet in the dining room next to the couch where I slept. Daddy didn’t help us decorate it. Nor did he ask about the pageant. 

   It was a long time before I fell asleep that night. I kept looking at our little tree, wishing it was a big, live tree and that Daddy believed in Jesus so we could really celebrate Christmas together as a family. 

   Daddy died when I was ten years old. The following Christmas I talked Mother into getting a real tree.  We bought the biggest tree I could find. I spent hours decorating it. Each strand of tinsel had to be draped just right. Mother put our little artificial tree in the window. It looked small and insignificant next to the magnificent balsam pine, and it triggered memories I wanted to forget. 

   The years passed quickly. I got married and moved away from home. As if to make up for the pain of the past, I went all out trying to make Christmas as special as possible for my children. It became a family tradition to go tramping through the woods in search of the perfect tree. We decorated it together, baked cookies together, and most important of all, went to church together. Our home was happy and filled with a lot of love.

    Our children are now grown. Arthritic knees and sciatica this year made it impossible for me to go in search of a live tree. Instead, my grandkids helped me put up an artificial tree. It’s much larger that the artificial tree from my childhood. It looks almost real. Yet I feel sad  when I think of the past and of that littlest Christmas tree. By now it would be a valuable antique, but I don’t know what happened to it. I do know what’s happened to me. 

   I now know Christmas is not about finding the perfect tree. It is about the One whose birth we celebrate–the One who has healed the rejection and hurt I felt as a child and who gives me strength to face the disappointments, problems, and fears of adult life.  

   Tears will be shed by many this Christmas as they look back on years past and on present circumstances that do not fit the pretty pictures on Christmas cards. I’ll shed some tears, too, as I feel their pain and wonder if Daddy is in heaven. But I’ll also recommit myself to sharing the good news of God’s love and forgiveness with a world that desperately needs to know Jesus. And my tears of sadness will be turned to tears of joy as I remember His promise to be with us always and to come again. 

 

 

Oh God, Why? WHY?

God with us the Christmas message proclaims,
but where were You when our children were slain?
Distraught parents with broken hearts cry,
Why? Oh God, why? WHY?
There are no words that can erase their pain,
only God understands for He gave His Son.

Christmas is more than the Babe in the manger,
it’s the coming to earth of our Lord and our Savior.
Filled with compassion, with mercy, with love
Jesus chose to descend from His throne above.
He went to the cross to set us free from sin.
The choice now is ours to reject or accept Him.

Yes, God is all-powerful; He could intervene,
but then we’d be puppets controlled by a string.
In the midst of our anguish we can hear Him say,
I am with you dear ones and will show you the Way
to give Me your questions, your doubts, and your fears.
I will comfort, will strengthen, and will dry your tears.

There is hope for tomorrow;
one day you will see,
your children are safely at home with Me.

As we all struggle with the horror of what happened in CT, I hope you’ll visit the blog my friend, Rick Marschall, has written. He says, in part, “There is sin in the world. A loving God gave us free will, desiring that we experience life. He did not create us as angelic robots. Such beings cannot know sorrow nor joy. Redemption and salvation cannot be experienced by beings who need them not. No angel ever sang ‘Amazing Grace’ with tears of joy streaming down the cheeks.”

I also urge you to read the insightful article, “It could have been my son,” that Vicki Chandler, a dear friend, GPCWC conferee, and member of my critique group has published with ASSIST News.

Finally, Joel Rosenberg in his December 15 blog, writes, “I can’t help but think about the trendlines and the dark trajectory our nation is on. It’s not just ‘the economy, stupid.’ We are, in many respects, in a moral and spiritual freefall in our country, and we are paying a terrible price.” Joel’s book, Implosion, is must reading.

Father, please help us to seek You and to “write Your answer.”

My friend, Rick Marschall, has written another powerful and thought-provoking post. It’s printed below with his permission. I want to encourage you to subscribe to Rick’s Monday Morning Music Ministry and to ASSIST News where he is a regular contributor. Most of all I want to encourage you to ask Father how He is calling you to “write His answer” to the “cliffs” we are facing. Dare to believe that He can use your words to make a difference.

Here I Come, Ready Or Not
By Rick Marschall

Surveys tell us that an awful (and I do mean awful) lot of people are buying into this Doomsday Scenario. You know, the 12-21-12 Farewell Party supposedly devised by the lost civilization of infant-sacrifice folks, the Mayans. The prophesy is found in pictograms carved into a stone, a very small fragment of which was rescued from a gravel quarry. How coincidental, or not, that someone writing a book salvaged this message from centuries past, just in time for a book he was writing. And what a coincidence, or not, that the due-date for the evaporation of the universe, after all these centuries, is right about now.

There are, supposedly, many other dire predictions from many other cultures, all with the same date circled on their calendars. Or virtually so, because many of these fortune-tellers had no conception of the Christian calendar, or months and years. Ah, skeptics like me are told, it is not about dates, but how the celestial bodies line up. OK, I get it. Folks could divine future events, even to precise moments — the same folks who were incapable of surviving as societies, much less inventing doorknobs. I might be straying from the fine points of documentary evidence, but you get my point.

Scientists today could be busier enumerating new varieties of nitwits infesting our society, than tracking the veracity of such theories. There are many adherents indeed, and among them are, perhaps not surprisingly, scientists, who are no less immune than others in subscribing to crackpot nostrums. Among them, also, are many Christians, who should know better.

Near the top of many reasons why Bible-believers should not pay attention to a word of this nonsense is God’s familiar injunction that “No one shall know the day or the hour” of the end of things. Not angels, not even the Son, will know. It is God’s prerogative.

Isn’t it odd that so many people caught up in this mania are also worried about the future of the economy, and the Middle East, and, oh, the football season, so fervently? The “fiscal cliff”? Hey, forget about it!

The Doomsday Scenario is nonsense — just a diversion like news about celebrity infidelities, and tabloid stories about dogs who play chess.

To step even further back, however, there is an extra reason to put the “Fiscal Cliff” in a more proper perspective. I reckon that America’s economy went off a cliff a long time ago. Policies, corruption, irresponsibility… we can see now that there were no exit ramps. It was inevitable. The only question is how hard the crash will be. But there are even more serious cliffs we are headed toward at 80 miles an hour, chatting on our cell phones, and scarfing down fast food. Driving at night. With our lights out. And with bad brakes.

Christians: what about the moral cliff? How rotten have we let society become on our watch?

Parents: what about the “nuclear-family” cliff? Do we honor the family unit, do we keep our households intact, do we set good examples, do we teach discipline and exhibit leadership?

Businessmen: are we good stewards of the resources we manage, and the welfare of our employees?

Civic leaders: does the government help or hinder average citizens? Are you continuing the Founders’ visions of letting free people make free decisions? Are you penalizing success in today’s economy?

Celebrities: are you good role models for your audiences? Do you promote moral values and decent behavior? Do you realize the impact you have when you traffic in sex and drugs and self-indulgence? IS it all about money?

Clergy: is it more important to dilute your message in order to attract and keep church members; or, rather, to hold high the gospel message — sometimes hard, always uncompromising — and trust the Holy Spirit, that Truth will draw all unto it? Do you really think that watering down the Word will inspire youth to trust it … or trust you, in the essential matters of life?

We have been driving toward, and over, many “cliffs” in America for quite some time. If you remember thinking you had a smooth ride back in the day, maybe it was because we have been, for some time, sailing through clear air, where there are no bumps in the road. But there will be a hard fall. A dead end.

Oh. Back to “knowing the day and the hour.” If you read carefully, the Bible DOES teach that we can know when the Lord signals the End of Time.

Here it is: When we least expect it.

So forget the Mayan Calendar, and think “larger” about Fiscal Cliffs. Let the Bible be your calendar, let the Bible be your roadmap.

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Often you will hear, in apocalyptic movies and even TV commercials, the music of Carl Orff. So we shall not disappoint here. “Carmina Burana” was composed in Germany in 1935-36, a cantata based on the poems found in medieval works by Benedictine monks from roughly the 14th and 15th centuries. The first movement is titled “Fortuna Imperatrix Mundi” or “O Fortuna,” lamenting the hopes and disappointments of worldly desires. The performance in Maastricht, the Netherlands, is by Andre Rieu and his typical, and typically impressive, cast of thousands.

Click: O Fortune

http://www.youtube.com/watch_popup?v=4QPU1VpPn2s#MondayMinistry_12-3-12

Contrasts

Thanksgiving again ushers in
the Christmas season.
I am sobered
not so much by the calories I’ll consume
or the prices in the mall
(although both are too high)
but by the contrasts I see.
There is plenty and want,
joy and grief,
love and hatred,
hope and despair,
the real and the artificial.
Father, please help me to see You
and to share Your love.
Move me to give as Your Son gave
when He willingly went
from the manger to the Cross.
Let there be a difference in me
that is visible and credible—
that points others to Jesus Christ,
who came and is coming again!

Is God On Our Side?

Guest post by CCWC & GPCWC Faculty Member, Rick Marschall

The recent election sees half of America crowing in jubilation, and half disappointed. Nothing new, there. For once the media has it right, when headlines proclaim that we are a 50-50 nation. Generally, conservatives and many Christians populate the corps of those who despair. But everyone lives to fight another day – sometimes, they itch to fight; sometimes they grow weary of what democracy has become.

I have the feeling that once the dust settles – the debates, the analysis, the what-ifs, the recriminations, the second-guessing, and such – many people will recognize that 2012 was more of a “consequential” election than any of the prophets could have foreseen. Forget the negative ads, the “ground games,” the media bias. This was the year that America went off the cliff – not only a financial cliff, but a social one.

The resounding, and fateful, votes across America were on the “undercards.” State ballot initiatives OK’d homosexual marriage, legalized recreational marijuana, and censorship of political speech; i.e., contra Citizens United – two approvals of each matter, spread across various states.

No longer can traditional conservatives and Christian patriots direct their complaints at small court majorities or legislatures that might have been influenced in one way or another.

The people are speaking. The rejection of traditional values goes hand-in-hand with the dependency culture, a society that enables various form of vice. In the name of “welcome,” “acceptance,” and non-judgmentalism, we are calling evil good. America will never be the same: throughout history, societies that so self-destruct seldom hit the rewind button.

I try to reconcile the traditional concept of “the Divine Right of Kings” with the democratic age. God does not SEND leaders to peoples in every case; He “allows” leaders and situations and consequences. Which is to say, we get the leaders we deserve. This is axiomatic. What we do to deserve them, and how we cope with consequences, is neither axiomatic nor automatic.

Those whom I gather under the umbrellas of cultural traditionalists and Christian patriots with me would do well to stop complaining about media bias, cynical campaigning practices, and pandering to voting blocs, however true and pernicious those factors are. The fault is not in our stars, but in ourselves, that we are underlings.

WE have let a generation slip away. WE have allowed churches to dilute the message of the gospel so they preach a feel-good, enablement gospel that leaves people without moral compasses. WE have allowed the entertainment media to pollute the sensibilities of audiences. WE have stood by while the educational-industrial complex has gutted schools of the Bible, traditional morality, and nationalism. WE have supported the news media while the commercialization of subversive concepts rolls along. WE have overseen the destruction of the traditional family, the spread of a drug culture, the erosion of personal responsibility.

It is almost ridiculous that, having watched, and often failed to resist, all these trends, that we regard an election whose results we regret and blame politicians or even other voters. Our actions – our inaction – has brought this to pass. How can it be otherwise?

What could we have done, what can we do? A lot. It involves “hurting other peoples’ feelings,” a cardinal sin these days. But Christians have come to the place where they don’t mind offending God, as long as our sinning and suffering neighbors are not offended. It involves yelling out our thoughts at more than our cats, our spouses, and our TV sets – getting in the face of those whom we see as negative influences, from school board candidates to presidents. It involves acting like we love the past, hate the present, and care about the future.

It involves doing what cultural traditionalists and Christian patriots have done through history. Work, sacrifice, fight. And pray, because this is a spiritual crisis more than an electoral contest.

On this Veterans day, with Election Day just behind us, we have a special set of role models before the eyes of our conscience. It always strikes me that many armies in history have been fueled by hatred, but the US military, invariably, suits up and reports for duty in order to liberate, aid, and serve.

“Greater love hath no man than this, than to lay down his life for his fellow man.”

Lamenting the drift of our civil culture, and pausing to honor our veterans, reminds me of the old hymn, “Onward Christian Soldiers.” Its chorus does NOT say, “marching to war,” but “marching AS to war.” Traditionalists and Christian patriots should not necessarily make war, but march for biblical values as if girding for battle.

Abraham Lincoln once said that our concern should not be whether God is on our side, but that we are on God’s side. In the battles to come – and there will be many; there SHOULD be many! – this should be our concern too.

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A moving rendition of the classic hymn that can be an anthem of renewal for citizen-battlers in the fight to reclaim our culture:

Click: Onward, Christian Soldiers

Reprinted by permission from Rick Marschall’s Monday Morning Music Ministry blog. I encourage you to subscribe to his blog for important and insightful articles.

Whether you feel exhilarated or disappointed by the results of yesterday’s election, one thing is certain–God is continuing to call His people to humble themselves and pray, to seek His face, and to turn from our wicked ways. And His promise is also certain. He will hear. He will forgive. He will heal our land (2 Chron. 7:14).

Many prayer initiatives for our nation have been a hallmark of this election season. I’m praying they will continue and that our resolve to address biblical issues will not fade. “Make the most of your chances to tell others the Good News,” the apostle Paul wrote. But he also said, “Be wise in all your contacts with them. Let your conversation be gracious as well as sensible” (Col. 4:5-6 TLB).

Our nation is bitterly divided by harsh words from both the right and the left. Will you work to bring healing that our nation again will be “one nation under God”? That doesn’t mean compromising what we believe, but rather waiting on the Lord for His answer (Hab. 2:1) and then speaking and writing His truth in love.

Years ago Dennis Rainey asked, “What causes you to pound the table and weep?” Will you commit to write about those things? Whether you write for the editorial page of your newspaper, your blog, your church newsletter, or incorporate your heart burden into a novel as C. Hope Flinchbaugh, Kathi Macias, and Jeanette Windle (all who have served on CCWC and GPCWC’s faculty) so powerfully do in their issues fiction, God can use you to make a difference.

In Him – Marlene

P.S. Click here for a free Bible study handout, “Called to ‘Write His Answer.’”

I encourage you to visit Hope Flinchbaugh’s blog and read today’s post, For God, Family, and Country, the Day After.

Guest post by Cynthia Clover

To vote or not to vote? That is the question – and apparently it’s posing quite the dilemma for some Christians.  And while I was actually going to leave it alone, just this past week I found myself having more than one conversation with frustrated Christians who were going to “send a message” by not voting.  However, since the mission here is to examine issues in light of the Cross, it seems I can hardly skip the election.  It’s certainly an issue.

So – let’s say you’re one of those frustrated Christians who feel that you don’t really have a choice in this election or even that, given the choices, it would be flat “wrong” to vote.  I talked with one friend whom I’ll call “Ivana” (because I don’t have any friends named Ivana and I don’t anticipate any) who said she couldn’t vote for either candidate because “neither one is a Christian.”

The question I asked Ivana is: If you don’t vote, then what message are you sending?

The conversation I had with Ivana – who is, by the way, a very intelligent and professional Christian woman – made me realize that many Christians are having a real moral problem with the concept of voting for someone who might not be a Christian.  Is it wrong?  Is it right?  Or, is it just better left alone? 

So let’s examine Ivana’s main objection – that neither candidate is a Christian.

While many people would argue (loudly) that neither President Obama nor Governor Romney is a Christian, let’s not pretend we know the answer to that: we don’t.  While we can look at words and actions and draw conclusions, only God knows the heart.  However, that’s not even the point.  The point is, as Christians, do we only vote when we have the choice of a Christian?

While it’s wonderful when we have the option of a Bible-believing Christian, do we always?  Have we always?  As I asked my friend, “Is this the first time in an election that you’ve never had the option of voting for a Christian?”  She admitted that it was not.

Again, the heart of the matter is: Do we only vote when a Christian is running?

With all due respect, we need to keep in mind that while it’s wonderful to have that option, we’re not voting for a pastor; we’re voting for a president.  And however much we might like it to be, the fact is, Christianity is not a prerequisite for the office.

So – what should Christians look for in a candidate (even if someone claims to be a Christian . . . )?

Consideration #1:  Character

If we don’t have the option to vote for a Christian as president (and even if we do), we should also be evaluating the character of the candidate we’re considering.  For instance, does the candidate exhibit honesty and integrity?  And what examples can we point to to prove or disprove this?  (As I tell my students, if you can’t prove it, it’s just an opinion.)

Another thing to consider: is he truthful?  The debates are a good resource for judging truthfulness because whatever a candidate says at a debate cannot be denied later: it’s a matter of record.  And after a debate (for weeks after), there’s this wonderful sport engaged in by the media called “fact-checking.”  A candidate can claim anything he says is truth or that anything his opponent says is a lie (and that’s happened) but the media’s fact-checking is a good resource for verification.

Consideration #2:  Biblical Principles

Here’s a fact: just the same way some non-Christians “happen” to follow Biblical principles and some Christians do not, the same is true of candidates.  Non-Christian candidates can, as a matter of personal conviction, follow Biblical principles – even if they don’t market them as such.

For example, the question of abortion is a Biblical issue.  The Bible is clearly and unequivocally pro-life.  One of the practices that God warned His people was an “abomination” to Him was the killing of babies and children (Deut. 18:10).  Moreover, in the book of Exodus, the law calls for the death of a man who causes the death of an unborn child (21:23).  Therefore, a candidate who is pro-life is supportive of Biblical principle; a candidate who is for abortion is against Biblical principle.

Another example is gay marriage.  The Bible rejects homosexuality in no uncertain terms (I Cor. 6:9-10).  Therefore, any candidate supporting gay marriage cannot be supporting Biblical principle.  (While some denominational church doctrines do support gay marriage, we’re not discussing church doctrines here; we’re discussing Biblical principles.)  Any candidate supporting traditional marriage “between one man and one woman” is supporting Biblical principle.

A third principle to consider is the question of religious freedom.  Evaluate which candidates defend the rights of Americans to practice their faith unimpeded by government regulations.  (Disclaimer:  This does not mean people may commit felonies such as murder, assault, or arson in support of their “beliefs”.)

Also, consider the Biblical principle of working as a prerequisite for eating.  As the Word of God says, “If you don’t work, you don’t eat” (II Thess. 3:10).  This is not, of course, meant to condemn anyone who sincerely wants to work and truly cannot find a job.  Rather it’s an admonition against programs that foster people to believe that they are entitled not to have to work.  Some candidates encourage entitlement programs.  (Another disclaimer: This does not include Social Security for retired people since anyone receiving SS retirement benefits has previously paid into SS in order to get those benefits later in life.)  Therefore, examine candidates’ views on work: which ones see entitlement programs as temporary seasons of assistance, and which candidates view them as long-term lifestyles?

Finally, we cannot forget the Biblical principle of supporting Israel: the Word clearly warns that those who help and bless Israel will be blessed and those who don’t support Israel will be cursed.  (Notice how there is no middle ground there.)  Again – actions speak louder than words.  Candidates can say they support Israel but their records on the matter will tell the truth.

I won’t get into details here but the past few decades prove that when we have a president who supports Israel, our nation is protected by God, both financially and from disasters of all kinds.  When we don’t, the opposite is true.  FEMA’s website lists the ten most costly natural disasters in this country and eight of them have happened within 48 hours of our past presidents not standing with Israel on some issue or other.  The bottom line is that we simply cannot afford a leader in this country who will not support Israel.

Consideration #3:  Can God use a non-Christian?

Does God ever use non-Christians?  As mentioned, God knows the heart.  When a Roman centurion sent a message to Jesus asking Him to heal his servant, the Jewish men recommending him noted that the Roman man (read “non-Christian”) had paid to build a temple for the Jewish people.  Because of his generous and sincere heart, Jesus commended the centurion and granted his request (John 7:1-10).  It didn’t matter that the centurion wasn’t Christian or Jewish. 

Other examples of God using people who were not yet Christians are Saul, the prosecutor of early Christians, Rahab the harlot, and Matthew the tax collector.  All of these people were despised by the Christians and/or Jews of their day because no one could conceive of how God could ever use “sinners” like them.  Furthermore, if God waited until we were perfect until He used us, He’d still be waiting.  None of us would be doing anything for Him yet.

The point is – don’t not vote.

It’s imperative that we, as the people of God, stand for the principles that the Word of God commands. We need to support candidates who value the principles of the Bible – even if they don’t win – or they may quit running. The truth is, by not voting, we’re essentially saying either that we don’t care or that we’ve given up.  And God doesn’t look favorably on either of those excuses. 

So vote – perhaps not so much for a man but for the Biblical principles he supports.  And may the Lord bless you for caring.

I just read op-eds on CNN written by Romney and Obama about their vision for the future. Both, of course, are focused on the economy. I too am concerned about the economy. It’s certainly impacted us as a family. Our son was out of work for almost a year. Praise God he’s working again but in South Carolina instead of Delaware. I hate having him and our daughter-in-law 13 hours away. Our old house was on the market for more than two years before it finally sold at close to half of our original asking price.

But as much as I’m concerned about the economy and the national debt that puts us in such a precarious position, I’m even more concerned about biblical issues that cannot be ignored. The powerful ad the Catholic church produced has been redone with Mike Huckabee narrating. I hope you’ll watch it and pass the URL on – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8eV0OipvkZE.

Focus on the Family Citizen Link says “it is absolutely critical that we all understand where our candidates stand on the issues that matter to us.  See CitizenLinkVoter.com for information on candidates in your state.

Dr. Billy Graham says in a full page ad in many newspapers, “I believe it is vitally important that we cast our ballots for candidates who base their decisions on biblical principles and support the nation of Israel.”

Franklin Graham says, “This Could Be America’s Last Chance” in his October  22  letter.

In a stirring and challenging message Dr. David Jeremiah also urges everyone to “Vote Your Values.”

Father, help us not take for granted our freedom to choose our leaders or to believe the lie that our one vote doesn’t matter. Please draw our nation back to You.

Trick or Treat?

Autumn is probably my favorite season of the year minus Halloween. Click here for an important article by Jim Daly of Focus on the Family that expresses my opinion of Halloween.

Below is a story I wrote about 25 years ago that has been published a number of times. May it encourage you to find ways to be light not just on this dark night but throughout the year.

             “Let’s hope they’ll be only treats, and not tricks this year,” I said to my husband.

            “Just to be on the safe side, I’d like to get a spotlight mounted on the side of the house,” Paul said. “I don’t want to take any chances that this year it will be our car that gets sprayed with paint.”

            I felt my stomach tighten into a knot. Halloween was anything but fun or funny in our neighborhood.

            The next morning, I saw the tricks had already begun even though Halloween was two days away. Obscenities scribbled in soap covered our car windows. I grumbled to the Lord about “those kids” as I used a razor knife to scrape off the filthy words.

            That evening was Mischief Night. Paul was determined not to have any more pranks. He mounted the new spotlight and left it on all night. He also kept the dog on the front porch. Several times he went outside to check on things, but everything was quiet.

            To our relief, there was no sign of any more tricks the next morning. But later, when I was reaching into the mailbox, I felt something strange.

            “A dead mouse!” I screeched.

            Moments later, the phone rang. It was Paul calling from work.

            “Our gas cap is missing, and shaving cream has been sprayed into the tank,” he said in a weary voice.

            I felt my blood pressure leap. “Those kids! What’s the matter with their parents? If they can’t teach them to respect other’s property, why don’t they keep them in on Mischief Night? This wasn’t a prank. This was vandalism!”

            “I’m going to talk to their parents,” Paul said.

            “But they’ve never listened before. Besides,” I added, “we can’t prove anything. We can’t make enemies of our neighbors.”

            “What are we supposed to do? Just let them get away with it?” Paul asked. “Next time they’ll only be bolder.”

            On Halloween night, we discovered that “the next time” already had happened. Something told Paul to go and check on our pop-up camper that was parked in the backyard. I came running when I heard him yelling for me. To my horror, his flashlight revealed holes had been poked in the roof.

            “Oh no,” I groaned. We had insurance but, of course, we had opted for a high deductible to save money.

            “You still don’t want me to talk to their parents?” Paul asked.

            I sighed. I knew as well as he did which kids were responsible. Several of the teenagers on our block were running with a rough crowd. Increasingly, they had been mouthing off at me–probably because on several occasions I had dared to comment on their language and behavior.

            “If you have to curse, you could at least go where there are no little ones around to mimic you,” I’d said. Another day I asked them to please move their bikes so I could pull into the driveway. “You also could turn that music down a little,” I’d added.

            “What do you want–hymns?” one boy snarled.

            I was startled back to the present by my eight-year-old son tugging on my sleeve. “Look, Mom,” he whispered, pointing over to the tree. A doll was hanging by her neck from a limb. Her head was missing. “I don’t think I like Halloween tricks,” he said.

            “I don’t either,” I said, my voice trembling with anger. But then my anger was replaced by fear as the beam of Paul’s flashlight fell on some numbers spray painted on the side of our house – 666.

            “What are you going to do, Dad?” Robbie asked.

            “I don’t know, Son. We have no proof to file formal charges.”

            “Well, I know what I’m going to do,” I said. “If those kids are going to harass us, I’m going to harass them. Maybe they’ll realize it isn’t fun to play tricks when I start calling the police every time they get rowdy. I’ve overlooked a lot, but no longer.”

      “But getting even won’t fix the roof of our camper,” Paul said quietly.

      “Aren’t we supposed to love our enemies?” Robbie asked.

      Out of the mouth of babes, I thought as I bent down to hug him. “You’re right, Robbie,” I said, trying not to choke on the lump in my throat.

      Halloween passed without any more incidences. Several days later, Paul mentioned what had happened to the father of one of the boys we suspected.

      “I’m really sorry to hear that,” the man said. “Halloween has gotten entirely out of hand. I made my son stay in.”

      “Maybe we’re also judging the rest of them unjustly,” Paul said to me later. We agreed to let it drop, but I still felt angry every time I passed that group of boys hanging out on the corner.

      But then God began nudging me to see them through his eyes. Finally I began to pray for them. To my surprise, I also began smiling at them. One day, I even stopped to talk to them–and not about a complaint.

      It was a beginning.

      In the months that followed, I saw my attitude, and theirs, slowly changing. Whenever possible, I stopped to talk to them. When they were rowdy, I didn’t say anything. I hoped that my silence was speaking louder than my previous words of condemnation.

      It may be just my imagination or wishful thinking, but the boys seem to be swearing less. In any case, they no longer make smart remarks to me. And one of the boys often says hello to me and initiates a conversation. I have a feeling he’d like to be friends.

      Halloween will soon be here again. I still dread it, but this year, with God’s help, I’m going to confront Halloween pranksters with love. I’ll show them that treats are better than tricks.

     

 

Have you seen the “First Time” ad that compares a vote for Obama with losing virginity? It’s an attention getter for sure, but a positive one? I hope not! 

Our nation is in a moral free fall that is accelerating as we’ve cast aside the biblical principles that were our foundation. We’re like that frog in the kettle of water that has adjusted to the increased temperature and now is close to boiling to death.

In our complacency we’ve adjusted to calling abortion “women’s health care” (including allowing babies born alive in late-term abortions to die). Same-sex marriage, clearly condemned in the Bible, is now acceptable and, in a growing number of states, legal. Religious freedom is in danger of being lost. The national debt continues to spiral out of control and threatens to destroy our nation.

And then there are all the questions concerning Benghazi where our ambassador and three other Americans were killed. “Stand down” CIA operatives were told when help was requested more than once. In today’s “real-time” world, how could the White House not been aware of what was happening?

I cannot be complacent or silent even though I know I risk losing friends. I did not vote for Obama four years ago and will not vote for him now. Yes, I know Mitt Romney is a Mormon, but we are electing a president not a high priest. He and Paul Ryan support the biblical values that I believe are critical if America is to survive.

Father, please help Your people to carefully and prayerfully examine the issues before they enter the voting booth. And please give us the courage of our convictions to say and write what we believe You are calling us to say and write before it’s too late.